Soon to be homeless single mom

Posted in Family Homeless Shelters about 1 year ago, 18 replies

I am a single mom of 2, girl age 9 and boy age 5. My home will be going into foreclosure the end of this month and I am not working and getting only 400 per month in child support. I don't know where to go with my kids. I have no family here in North Carolina.

I don't drive and live in a rural area which is why I can't find work. I need to find a shelter near public transportation so I can go look for work and have a way to get there. Anyone have any info or advice? It would greatly be appreciated.
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maybe i can help...contact.e-mail...kasseemweston@aol.com...are you still looking for a place this reply is for MARY,GALLO.NC....THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS..HOPE TO HERE FROM YOU
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You should call Legal Aid and file for bankruptcy to buy some time. You may also be the victim of predatory lending and may be able to file a civil rights lawsuit, which would delay the foreclosure and cause the mortgage company to explain how you got the unfair mortgage in the first place. Sometimes, the mortgages are sold to other companies and none of them have kept the original paperwork which can void the mortgage altogether. Seak to a legal aid attorney about this.

Also call or go online to apply for US Census jobs. They are actively looking for thousands of people at a very decent pay to do the 2010 Census. They assign you near where you live. I do not know your background, but they have regular enumerator jobs and supervisory jobs.
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I sent a coy of your plight to your Mayor. She should do something to help you. The town says it is "Passionate abou its future." You and your children are its future.
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January 11, 2009

TO: President-Elect Barack Obama

FROM: Ruben Botello, Founder
AMERICAN HOMELESS SOCIETY

Dear Mr. Obama:

I have been in and out of homelessness since being honorably discharged as a USMC Vietnam veteran in 1969. I wound up homeless then, in and out of homelessness with my two sons in the Eighties, and homeless on my own again in the Nineties.

I started the American Homeless Society in 1987 while my sons and I were homeless in California. I have been in several hunger strikes, marches and demonstrations for homeless rights since then but have seen little progress.

My longest hunger strike was 58 days against President Reagan’s “trickle down” economic policies that created much more instead of less homelessness in our country. You now speak about fixing our nation’s economy from the “bottom up” and that should mean you are starting by ending involuntary homelessness at the bottom.

HUD Secretary Philip Mangano has been promoting 10-year plans to end homelessness in major cities across the country on behalf of the Bush Administration for the past few years. We would hope and pray you make a similar commitment to abolish homelessness but throughout our nation, not just in individual cities because there are far more homeless than these urban plans will ever reach.

Slavery was abolished in America over a century ago; why not abolish homelessness today, Mr. Obama? Homelessness is just as bad as slavery in several ways and much worse in others.

Men, women and children from all the races, colors, cultures, nationalities, ethnicities, religions and creeds in our diverse society find themselves homeless daily. They are forced to endure harassment, discrimination and persecution in our nation today much like the slaves President Lincoln’s armies fought to free in the Nineteenth Century.

America’s homeless are also forced to endure nature’s harshest conditions without warm homes or shelter for protection; without good food and nutrition; without essential hygiene, medicine and healthcare; and without the necessary education, training or experience required to qualify for the dwindling supply of jobs in today’s worsening economy. Many of America’s homeless today are even employed but underemployed and unable to afford existing rentals while thousands of others are altogether unemployable.

How can our great nation permit so many of these poor souls to continue to suffer and die needlessly on our streets? I joined the Marines to fight for my country in the Sixties so that all Americans could have a better life, not just the rich and well-to-do who are receiving all the bailouts today.

The list of barriers and obstacles facing today’s homeless goes on and on, Mr. Obama. Please, if you are serious about fixing our nation’s economy from the bottom-up, begin at the real bottom by making a firm commitment to end involuntary homelessness throughout our country without further ado.

Sincerely,

Ruben Botello, Founder
AMERICAN HOMELESS SOCIETY
http://sananda.tripod.com/homeless/ahs1.html
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I am a single mom of three in the shelter and I have childrens advantage the system is getting worst the house I was renting went forclourse also and the bank got me and my three kids out and here ewr are ina place where there's no workers no help at all I don't even know how to get my kids in shool and my child has special needs if someone knos of any help please tell me thank you and God bless
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im a single mom of 3 boys and got no were to go. i need a job and public transpotation. i cant loose my boys, we are all we have and just need a chance to get on my feet. i lost my only support, my mom, to brain cancer just about a year ago and have been lost ever since. anyone got a clue for me on how to make it for my kids and myself???

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ginamarie,

I sent you an email
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Gina, Have you received any help?
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I am a loving stay at home mom in jacksonville, nc. I have a 20 month old daughter. I would be more then happy to give your kids a loving home to stay at until you are on your feet again. Please let me know if i can help you.
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I am a loving stay at home mom in jacksonville, nc. I have a 20 month old daughter. I would be more then happy to give your kids a loving home to stay at until you are on your feet again. Please let me know if i can help you.

TashaVB19@yahoo.com
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I am a 31 year old female I will be homeless in about a week and was wondering if anyone could recommend a shelter or program. I am neither alcohol nor drug dependent. Thanks. acid41@excite.com
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i am a mom of two. i am lookinf for help with food, cloths, rent, or place to stay. me and my kids are really going through some problem. i will be glady to get help form anybody that will like to help us. i pray for the lord to though someone heart to blessed me and my little kids.
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I am a single mom in need please please help me ever since I lost home I been trying to pay over 1000 dollars rent and cant in the pass three years my kids and I have moved more then five times. I work very very hard and still have no money for food or bills and now the landlord just about had it. please please please help me get back on my feet help me help my kids....I cant do it alone any more.786-312-9827 I am willing to take a graveyard job to keep up with my payments please help me get a job or pay my rent for two month..thats all I am asking for THANKS.

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am prince , pls i need you to help me, i ma musician i play kabod all so a singer, i hav nobody in this world, it was only me pls sir, ma i have a proble help me and me god will help you too,
thins.
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My name is Lameca i am a single mother of 4 children we are in need of a place to stay i am a working mom it's so hard on me rite now my husband got in some trouble.He is now serving 60 years in prison me and my kids need a place to stay,i want to be a great parent im at the bottom rite now just looking for a way to get back up.W e really need help some please give me some advice i have went to housing the list is so long its got to be a better way. I JUST WANT SOME ADVICE FROM SOMEONE THAT HAVE BEEN HERE BEFORE. GOD BLESS
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I`m pregnant. My husband doesn`t want to hear about this and want me to take a pill..... I`m 28 years old and I`m pregnant the first time in my life. I want to keep my baby. I dont know what can i do in this situation and need some help and advise.

Thank you, Irina
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Hi
Irina my name is nichole.
I am a 27 yr old mom of 4 and got pregnant with my first child in high school. I know where ur coming from with a boyfriend who doesn't want the baby. I'm not that near you but you can call me for support.
704-858-7659 anytime
God bless you
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