Soon to be homeless single mom

Posted in Family Homeless Shelters over 3 years ago, 61 replies

I am a single mom of 2, girl age 9 and boy age 5. My home will be going into foreclosure the end of this month and I am not working and getting only 400 per month in child support. I don't know where to go with my kids. I have no family here in North Carolina.

I don't drive and live in a rural area which is why I can't find work. I need to find a shelter near public transportation so I can go look for work and have a way to get there. Anyone have any info or advice? It would greatly be appreciated.
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maybe i can help...contact.e-mail...kasseemweston@aol.com...are you still looking for a place this reply is for MARY,GALLO.NC....THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS..HOPE TO HERE FROM YOU
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You should call Legal Aid and file for bankruptcy to buy some time. You may also be the victim of predatory lending and may be able to file a civil rights lawsuit, which would delay the foreclosure and cause the mortgage company to explain how you got the unfair mortgage in the first place. Sometimes, the mortgages are sold to other companies and none of them have kept the original paperwork which can void the mortgage altogether. Seak to a legal aid attorney about this.

Also call or go online to apply for US Census jobs. They are actively looking for thousands of people at a very decent pay to do the 2010 Census. They assign you near where you live. I do not know your background, but they have regular enumerator jobs and supervisory jobs.
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I sent a coy of your plight to your Mayor. She should do something to help you. The town says it is "Passionate abou its future." You and your children are its future.
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yes i am a soon to be mother of twins and i want to get out of my mothers house she is on drugs and i dont want my twins to be around that stuff so if i could get help getting my own place i would really appreciate it thanks brittany vickers my phone number is 8637093657
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January 11, 2009

TO: President-Elect Barack Obama

FROM: Ruben Botello, Founder
AMERICAN HOMELESS SOCIETY

Dear Mr. Obama:

I have been in and out of homelessness since being honorably discharged as a USMC Vietnam veteran in 1969. I wound up homeless then, in and out of homelessness with my two sons in the Eighties, and homeless on my own again in the Nineties.

I started the American Homeless Society in 1987 while my sons and I were homeless in California. I have been in several hunger strikes, marches and demonstrations for homeless rights since then but have seen little progress.

My longest hunger strike was 58 days against President Reagan’s “trickle down” economic policies that created much more instead of less homelessness in our country. You now speak about fixing our nation’s economy from the “bottom up” and that should mean you are starting by ending involuntary homelessness at the bottom.

HUD Secretary Philip Mangano has been promoting 10-year plans to end homelessness in major cities across the country on behalf of the Bush Administration for the past few years. We would hope and pray you make a similar commitment to abolish homelessness but throughout our nation, not just in individual cities because there are far more homeless than these urban plans will ever reach.

Slavery was abolished in America over a century ago; why not abolish homelessness today, Mr. Obama? Homelessness is just as bad as slavery in several ways and much worse in others.

Men, women and children from all the races, colors, cultures, nationalities, ethnicities, religions and creeds in our diverse society find themselves homeless daily. They are forced to endure harassment, discrimination and persecution in our nation today much like the slaves President Lincoln’s armies fought to free in the Nineteenth Century.

America’s homeless are also forced to endure nature’s harshest conditions without warm homes or shelter for protection; without good food and nutrition; without essential hygiene, medicine and healthcare; and without the necessary education, training or experience required to qualify for the dwindling supply of jobs in today’s worsening economy. Many of America’s homeless today are even employed but underemployed and unable to afford existing rentals while thousands of others are altogether unemployable.

How can our great nation permit so many of these poor souls to continue to suffer and die needlessly on our streets? I joined the Marines to fight for my country in the Sixties so that all Americans could have a better life, not just the rich and well-to-do who are receiving all the bailouts today.

The list of barriers and obstacles facing today’s homeless goes on and on, Mr. Obama. Please, if you are serious about fixing our nation’s economy from the bottom-up, begin at the real bottom by making a firm commitment to end involuntary homelessness throughout our country without further ado.

Sincerely,

Ruben Botello, Founder
AMERICAN HOMELESS SOCIETY
http://sananda.tripod.com/homeless/ahs1.html
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I am a single mom of three in the shelter and I have childrens advantage the system is getting worst the house I was renting went forclourse also and the bank got me and my three kids out and here ewr are ina place where there's no workers no help at all I don't even know how to get my kids in shool and my child has special needs if someone knos of any help please tell me thank you and God bless
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im a single mom of 3 boys and got no were to go. i need a job and public transpotation. i cant loose my boys, we are all we have and just need a chance to get on my feet. i lost my only support, my mom, to brain cancer just about a year ago and have been lost ever since. anyone got a clue for me on how to make it for my kids and myself???

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ginamarie,

I sent you an email
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Gina, Have you received any help?
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I am a loving stay at home mom in jacksonville, nc. I have a 20 month old daughter. I would be more then happy to give your kids a loving home to stay at until you are on your feet again. Please let me know if i can help you.
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I am a loving stay at home mom in jacksonville, nc. I have a 20 month old daughter. I would be more then happy to give your kids a loving home to stay at until you are on your feet again. Please let me know if i can help you.

TashaVB19@yahoo.com
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I am a 31 year old female I will be homeless in about a week and was wondering if anyone could recommend a shelter or program. I am neither alcohol nor drug dependent. Thanks. acid41@excite.com
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i am a mom of two. i am lookinf for help with food, cloths, rent, or place to stay. me and my kids are really going through some problem. i will be glady to get help form anybody that will like to help us. i pray for the lord to though someone heart to blessed me and my little kids.
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I am a single mom in need please please help me ever since I lost home I been trying to pay over 1000 dollars rent and cant in the pass three years my kids and I have moved more then five times. I work very very hard and still have no money for food or bills and now the landlord just about had it. please please please help me get back on my feet help me help my kids....I cant do it alone any more.786-312-9827 I am willing to take a graveyard job to keep up with my payments please help me get a job or pay my rent for two month..thats all I am asking for THANKS.

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am prince , pls i need you to help me, i ma musician i play kabod all so a singer, i hav nobody in this world, it was only me pls sir, ma i have a proble help me and me god will help you too,
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My name is Lameca i am a single mother of 4 children we are in need of a place to stay i am a working mom it's so hard on me rite now my husband got in some trouble.He is now serving 60 years in prison me and my kids need a place to stay,i want to be a great parent im at the bottom rite now just looking for a way to get back up.W e really need help some please give me some advice i have went to housing the list is so long its got to be a better way. I JUST WANT SOME ADVICE FROM SOMEONE THAT HAVE BEEN HERE BEFORE. GOD BLESS
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I`m pregnant. My husband doesn`t want to hear about this and want me to take a pill..... I`m 28 years old and I`m pregnant the first time in my life. I want to keep my baby. I dont know what can i do in this situation and need some help and advise.

Thank you, Irina
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Hi
Irina my name is nichole.
I am a 27 yr old mom of 4 and got pregnant with my first child in high school. I know where ur coming from with a boyfriend who doesn't want the baby. I'm not that near you but you can call me for support.
704-858-7659 anytime
God bless you
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well look I know what you mean my husband hugs other girls and when I get emotional and he can't handle it I am having twins and I may be homeless by the end of the day.Jan-22-2011 and he definds the other girls when I call them sluts so he called me a slut from Ga and stupid and I don't have anyone in Ca that will help me so I have to have myself locked up in a mental hospital and then I plan I leaveing the Usa..And I know once I get locked up I most likely will miscarry and really go out of my mind..My heart is with you and your baby don't hurt the baby leave your man that's your baby you have to do all the work not him tell him to take a few pills to be a better person pysico ...
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UPDATE: I had to give my children to my ex husband July 2009. A cousin of mine here in Florida offered to take me in so I took her up on her offer. I now have a boyfreind and we are currently living together. Still not able to find work. I am recieving some money from my ex shortly from a divorce settlement and I am going to use that money to go back to school so my chances of finding work are greater.
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I am unable to ork and am going to be homeless with my son..i dont know whaat to do..most shelters want you to work and due to mental physical issues i cant...lost
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hi im a single mom of one..and the enviroment i live in is no longer tollerable for my child and I. I want to find a shelter that can help me get back onto my feet and is healthy for my child.. can anyone plz help me!!!
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IM GOIN THU SO MUCH I HAVE A 2 BOYZ 3 YEAR OLD AND A 7 MONTH OLD IM WILL BE HOMELESS 12/28/10 PLEASE HELP ME WAT CAN I DO I AM ONLY 25 YEAR OLD I BEE LONG TO RENT A PLACE BUT CANT FOUND ONE I ONLY GET 5OO A MONTH PLEASE HELP
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Hi i am 28 yrs old and a single mother of three i have a 5yr a 2yr (well almost 2, Dec 30th she will be) and a 1 yr old. I am about to lose everything, it's winter and the gas is already shut off, i have an electric space heater but the electric is going to be shut off tomorrow, My storage unit is past due so i am going to lose everything, i am also past due on my rent and just waiting to get kicked out.

First off i dont want handouts i want a JOB. I am used to working hard everyday to take care of my family. I lost my job after getting hurt at work (almost broke my back)i did sue the company for the dr bills and Dr bills ONLY. So in return i got black listed in this town and cant find a job anywhere. When i went to the unemployment office they flat out told me they wont help me find a job after looking at my background. ((Pepsie Owns more business than not here,,))i dont do drugs and cant afford to drink. The worst thing i have done in my life was have a non working tail light, so i am not a felon or anything. because i got hurt i cant find work at all.

My kids dad pays $1.00 every three months for child support. That by Oklahoma standards is enough to keep him out of jail. I think they should do something about that glich in the system. Also he HATES the kids and has nothing to do with them no matter how hard i try to get him to do right and see them. So there is no sending my kids there,

As far as family my dad lost his job after 37 yrs of being there (thank you AT&T) so my dad is hard up and cant help us. My mom wont help she always says "go ask your dad i have my own bills that i have to pay and i am not paying yours to"

I just dont know what to do, It seems my family's next step in life will be living in my truck I have called the local shelters and they are all full.

I hope everyone has a Merry Christmas
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Also i have contacted the housing authority here and they will not help you if you dont have a job. The lady told me "We do not give handouts to people who wont work. We help only those who help themselves. When you get a job then contact us again but there is a 8 month waiting list" Ponca City Oklahoma Housing Authority and section 8 management. Btw my back neighbor was getting gov money to live off of and to pay her DISH NETWORK bill and to Throw loud drunken parties. So the gov gives people like that money but wont help me even a little and i am one that wants to work. (She also got arrested for stealing my water to fill her pool that was made for 20 people to fit in.)
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yes my name is stephanie im 25 have 3 kids and one on the way, i have recently left my husband, cause i want better for my kids not around fighting him drinkin and abuse!! hes in and out of jail and put me and my kids threw too much!! my kids deserve a better life and im going to make sure i do everything to protect them and see that there happy and safe!! im currently living with my mom but me and my kids share a bedroom, i was looking to find some kind of shelter for me and my kids to help me go on the right track i have 2 kids in school and thought maybe they can help me find a job get my younger son in child care, i know god has a plan for me and my kids and as long as i stay strong and believe everything will fall in place soon i just gotta take it step at a time and day by day...but i also wanna say god bless every one life isnt easy but you get out of life what you put in and as long as you believe and give it your all god will be there to guide you and bless you.. so dont give up stay strong our kids need us!!! god bless everyone life is wonderful
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Will soon face homelessness myself. Not your typical case, from upper middle class into poverty due to a nerve disease. Tooks years to get a dx and many other issues have popped up since I lost medical insurance. My illness lost me a job of 20 years as a Sr. Project Manager, so tried working for myself and did OK until it progressed, still tried doing odd jobs duct taping tools to my hands so I wouldn't drop them.
I think the hardest thing worse than disease is losing all you worked for for year, watching your family go into poverty, ect.
Have no family and wife and son had to move away to stay with one of her relatives....
I feel for all those ill that have to live in severe pain on the streets. Had my Doctors listened and gave a damn I doubt I would be here or least treatment could've prolonged it much longer. I don't know how anyone lives like this. I don't think I could live ill on the street.
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My husband and I live in Pineville, NC...basically Charlotte. Have you applied for disability benefits? What circumstances have led to your soon to be living situation?
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You may email us at jaybeeisme17@yahoo.com We would like to see if we can help in some way.
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well like how there a place that tryes to help .if all goes right next month i would like to sponse some of the people threw this site if that would be ok
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Iam a single christian vegan mom of a 4yr old son soon to be homeless if we dont get any help!!! Iam driving down to florida the first of March from NH. We need a safe place to stay and get assistance. Iam willing to work for this room for us housekeeping,petsitting etc. Please no sexual encounters!! If you can help us out in any way please call me at 1-603-595-6561 or 1-603-261-1413.

Thank You & God Bless!!

Susanna & Little Trevor
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i wish you the best of luck!!!
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i am a 24 yr old single mother of a 4 yr old boy...i live in phoenix az and in a week i will be homeless. i have no place to go i am unable to pay rent. i only wrk on saturdays and sundays now because i dont have money for daycare. i need help asap. im going insane just thinking of what im going to do. my sons father dont help in anything and child support is in process but here in az everthing takes forever. if anyone can help me please!!!! email me lil_oreo310@yahoo.com
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it breaks my heart and puts me in tears reading this and see theres so many people going trought my same misfurtune n more when babys are in this very sad picture and wish i can say to all to come to my place.but at the moment i dont have one and no money to offer. i am a single mom with a 10 month old baby i lost my apartment in july do to a fire in the top floor. i lost everything i had n end it up in the street i try shelter but it was soo hard for my baby n for me a loving soul took me in for very short time but it is very hard for her n her family and i been looking n checking every think i can think and ideas of other people i try everything but sadly referals n other things hasnt work yet until i find some things very special who gives me the oportunity to help myself n help other people too n im here i wish if we all get together on this n get organized n support n help each other we can make it work n we can get out of this sad and hurtful and very painful times we are having now. i need u.we all need each other. all for our babys future. lovelythingsdecor@yahoo.com
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"Without these streams of communication, how can we pursue participation? We must have determination and know that we are obligated, when it comes to the education of our children; we the adult nation must become infatuated with the love of teaching our young generations"that education is the key to LIFE.

Mothers of the Struggle, we will serve and protect all children without resistance and with complete sacrifice,giving our children the opportunity that they need to succeed in life, the opportunities that many of us missed.
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I am a hard working loving mother of three children ages 4, 3, and 2 months. I work as a nursing assistant making 9.50 cents an hour. I was homeless in 2010. My car just stopped running I need a car to get to work so that me an my kids want be homeless again. I dont have any money to buy one. Is there anyone out there that can help.
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I am a hard working loving mother of three children ages 4, 3, and 2 months. I work as a nursing assistant making 9.50 cents an hour. I was homeless in 2010. My car just stopped running I need a car to get to work so that me an my kids want be homeless again. I dont have any money to buy one. Is there anyone out there that can help.
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Hi. I am 39 years old, and have a 5 month old wonderful baby boy and my rock, my 13 year old son. My fiance and I were involved in a domestic dispute and he was arrested. He was our only support, I wasn't working because of the baby. At the end of may, we will be homeless. I have called every agency here where we live, and no one can help, not even the churches. They all say there isn't any money for rent. I am scared to death. I don't even have a car. He took both vehicles, they were in his name. I'm not looking for a handout, just maybe some info. Thanks in advance.
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im 19 years old with a 1 year old daughter.im working but not really getting hours. my boyfriend throw me out on the streets and i have no family here so if you could help me out i would really approciate it
thank you and god bless
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Iam a single mom of a 10 year old child. we have been homeless for 2 months. It has been a hard year for us. I lost my dad in Feb and my mom kicked us out in March. I have been staying with a friend but it is to the point that i have to go. not good place for my child. I have no job, but i do get unemployment. Just need help. I work hard and we are very good people just have hit rock bottom. if anyone knows of a shelter that is safe for kids please reply. thank you for your time
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I need a home for me and my kids- about to give them up for adoption so they do not have to live on the street in this horrid heat or nasty shelters where there can be so much crime if i close my eyes. I have severe depression and bipolar. not on any medicine yet but it has caused alot of pain and burned bridges in my life. I just found out I had these things. My kids dont deserve this life- of course i would want them back if i get better....but for now my 4, 5 and 7 year old nedd stability and nurturing.
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Hii I'm Vi cki do you still need help?? I would love to hp you keep your children! Call 865-237-1239! God Bless You All!!!
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My name is Dorothy I'm 19 and I'm a single mom with two kids a boy and a girl. Anthony is 2 & Nevaeh is 1. I have no place to call home I really need a place to stay so my kids don't have to sleep in the cold. It make me cry everyday I wake up and see that my kids are not wit me. My kids stay wit my dad I see them in the day for a little before I go to work but I don't make enough to get an apartment by myself. I just really need help.
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Hi everyone, I'm a 26 year old single mother with a Two year old angel and soon to be homeless by the end of October. I'm currently getting around 400 a month and have no vehicle at this time. If anyone knows anyway I can be helped please don't hesitate. It's been a rough year and I'm quickly running out of options, thank you all very much.
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i am soon to be homeless with an 18 month old baby and i am pregnant sure any day now with a little girl. I am about to be homeless and i am afraid of going to the homeless shelter reason being someone got raped recently there and i dont want my babies there. I have no job and am looking for someone or something that can help me.... Please..
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i am soon to be homeless with an 18 month old baby and i am pregnant sure any day now with a little girl. I am about to be homeless and i am afraid of going to the homeless shelter reason being someone got raped recently there and i dont want my babies there. I have no job and am looking for someone or something that can help me.... Please..
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I am a 25 year old single mother. I lost my job in March and haven't been able to find steady work since. I have been living with my mom, but she suffers from mental problems and has really went over the edge. She was always my only support system but now due to her illness she hates me. She says I can stay here but I am verbally abused and she is starting to get physical with me. My daughter is almost 3 and she is scared. My daughters father is in jail, he gets out in 15 days, but he doesnt work and is nothing but a burden anyway. I get absolutly NO money,or help from family. I am not drug dependant. Please I need help, not a handout, just an oppertunity to better my life for my daughter. If you can help with a job or housing please contact mee Forgettingtheforgotton@Yahoo.com Thank you!
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HELLO MY NAME IS PRINCESS 22 YRS JUST LOST MY JOB AND JUST GOT KICKED OUT CUZ I COULDNT HELP MY ROOMMATES PAY RENT NEED HELP REAL BAD JUS NEED SUM WHERE ME AND MY LIL BOY CAN CALL HM PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP US WE R N NEED BAD FOREVERPRETTYLADY@YAHOO.COM
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Hi, how are you doing? Are You willing to relocate?
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Im a single mom, 29, who has two amazing little girls. Leksi is 5 and Kylin is alomst 6 months. Ive been in a series of abusive relationships and really thought Kylins dad would be the right one. Ive been struggling with "should I stay or should I go" and I just really have no choice. Im a firm believer that a little girl needs to see their mom as a strong woman...not a coward. Before its too late, I need to get out... Hes threatened to take my little one away, saying that his family will shell out any kind of money to have her in his custody. I cant let another malipulative, controlling, monster try and rule my kids' lives...let alone my own. So, please, if you know somewhere we can stay, cheap, as Im still looking for work, My girls and I would appreciate anything. Thank you.
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u willing 2 relocate 2 ohio?
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I need help. I have three boys which only two of them are with me. I was in an abusive relationship and the father of my two youngest boys put us out a few days ago. Right now we dont have anywhere to go and my boys are 2 years old and 11months old. Im in need of shelter and right now i dont have income. I lost my job a couple of months ago. I dont care if the shelter is in another state i just need a place for me and my two boys to go and help to get back on my feet. Can somebody please help.
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Good Morning Mythree. Would you like to come to Houston, Texas if so I think I can help you out. If you are interested please email me at pmd2k@aol.com Thank you.
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i have three babies under the age of three. their father and i are always arguing around the kids..its just to the point where its just not a safe envirnoment for the kids..just too much verbal abuse..im needing some advice on where i can move to because i lost my job and were surviving off of my unemployment checks(which is not enough to make ends meet)the rent is due and i dont have the funds to make it.. i feel like giving up so much but i know that i cant because i love my kids and i care what happens to my babies..they are my life. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVISE FOR ME..PLEASE!!
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Hi. I am desperate to find a place to go. I have a 3year old son and I'm 8 months pregnant. My husband has been very abusive. He hates it that I'm pregnant. I'm very scared because he's threatened take my son away from me. I really don't know what to do especially I'm about to have my baby next month. I'm tired of being abused, it makes me want to give up on my kids. So please please someone help me!
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Hi, I am a single Christian mom to a darling teenage daughter.
We have a small 6 pound pad trained dog too.
We just lost our home in SC, and now living with the neighbors.
Can't stay here long. Need a place to get back on my feet.
Any one out there feel led to rent a room to us?
Willing to re- locate.
May God bless every one in this position and the kind hearts helping.
Shannon

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I am a single mom of two little guys ages 3 & 4.. have no where to go.. does anyone know of places that can help? Sleeping in the car is not the best for my kids.. anything would be great thank you!!
mommaparker07@hotmail.com
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Hello we are a family of three me my husband and our 2 year old daughter. We are currently homeless and have been having a hard time getting on our feet. I have tried everything to get a job with no availed and we are now out of money with nowhere to go. We want to stay together as a family and we need help any one have any ideas
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