Dont do nothing until u have all info about the land etc ... dose it come with accomodation? Remember u have a child to think about. Dont make the mistake I did. I have learned from my mistakes. First thing first is not ur partner but ur child that u created without there permission. Ur only concern right now is them! My method was get a job, struggle, deppressed, laughter with the wee one, sadness, determination, TIME, It took me a long hard 4 years but they werent misreable, I lived within my means and now I Have a business a house my daughter is 13 years old and can play violn, piano and clarinet lol (I never forced her to do any of that) She is twilight daft just now lol. I'm getting married in Cyprus next July woo hoo to a wonderful guy who I didnt chase. I'm still livilng in a crapy area but my house is my palace. As my daughter says "God mum u got taste"!

Try here:
http://forums.homeless.org.au/